How Love Really Is the Answer to Everything!

January 7, 2019 Uncategorized

For 50 something years of my life I never felt loved.  I didn’t really understand it.    When I realised I didn’t love myself, and didn’t actually think I was loveable was an incredibly emotional day.  Because I was incapable of loving myself, I therefore put an immense burden on those around me to prove […]

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A Different Way of Thinking To Create a Better World.

January 4, 2019 Uncategorized

Watching or reading the news on a regular basis, you could be forgiven for thinking we are living in a world going down the toilet.  There is a different way of thinking about the world, which will lead to the creation of a better one. How we are in both our personal and community life […]

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A Better Way to Deal With Depression and the Drug Problem

January 2, 2019 Uncategorized

Over the New Year period, there have again been deaths because of drugs and depression.  Most people seem to think it is a law and order problem.  Politicians especially have no idea about why people take drugs, or even why they may be depressed, and so they have no real solutions.  They then make the […]

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My Personal Journey of Self-Worth – What I am Still Learning

February 27, 2018 Uncategorized

It has almost been ten years since I started this particular journey in my life.  At my lowest point I sat on the back step at my dad’s house and contemplated suicide.  I felt hopeless.  I thought I didn’t matter.  Zero self-worth.  My life was a mess. Then I heard a voice.  “You are in […]

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Are You a Modern Day Slave? The Role of Conditioning and Mindset in Life.

February 6, 2018 Uncategorized

Previously, I have written about who we are, apathy, responsibility, and questioning life.  Today I am turning up the heat a little.  You don’t question the status quo because of conditioning! Slavery:   Collins English Dictionary. The state or condition of being a slave; a civil relationship whereby one person has absolute power over another […]

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When “Siri” May Understand More Than Most People Do

January 30, 2018 Uncategorized

I was looking for quotes today about questioning things. “When a child asks a question, no matter how obscure it may be, it is their way of trying to understand something.” Sara Deedley “Some men see things as they are and ask “why”? You dream things that never were and ask “why not”? JF Kennedy “The […]

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Are You “Waiting” for Your Circumstances to Change?

January 23, 2018 Uncategorized

When I was at my lowest point of depression I can clearly remember wanting to be rescued.  I thought if only my Prince Charming would appear and whisk me off my feet than everything would be better.  This might sound like fairy-tale stuff and nobody really believes it.  Yet, most people at some level are […]

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Is Apathy the most Dangerous Problem of our Society?

January 12, 2018 Uncategorized

What is Apathy?  Apathy is a lack of feeling, emotion, interest and concern.  Apathy is a state of indifference or the suppression of emotions such as concern, excitement, motivation and/or passion.  An apathetic individual has an absence of interest or concern about emotional, social, spiritual, philosophical and/or physical life and the world. The other day […]

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Starting the New Year the Right Way without Resolutions

January 4, 2018 Uncategorized

It is a few days into the New Year already and lots of people are putting up their posts of their New Year Resolutions. The sad thing is most of them are doomed to failure.  As the resolutions tumble, they will feel bad about themselves. Their little inner voice will be telling them how useless […]

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Are Your Thoughts Taking You in the Direction You Want to Go?

September 11, 2017 Uncategorized

After quite a few years of practice I can tell if my thoughts are turning towards the negative.  Definitely not where I want to go.  So I quiet my thoughts, make sure I am present in the here and now and then I think of all the things I am grateful for and have accomplished.  […]

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